ʻO nā kāne i māʻona ʻole i ko lākou moekolohe ke nānā pinepine nei i nā kaikamahine uʻi. Wahi a nā helu helu, ma kahi o 30% o nā kaikamahine i male ʻole ʻia ka haku wahine o kekahi. A laila, paipai mākou e heluhelu hou aku i nā mea hoihoi a hoihoi e pili ana i nā ipo.
1. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine e hoʻohui i kā lākou hopena me nā kāne i mare ʻia, ma ke ʻano he kūlana, hāʻule aloha lākou iā lākou.
2. ʻoliʻoli ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine i kēlā me kēia minuke i hoʻolilo ʻia me ka mea i wae ʻia, e ola ana mai kēlā me kēia hālāwai.
3. Ke lana nei ka manaʻo o kēlā me kēia haku wahine i ka hohonu o kona ʻuhane e haʻalele ana kāna mea i koho ai i kāna wahine kū kānāwai.
4. Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine e lilo lākou i wahine hou a kā lākou ipo aloha.
5. Nui nā wahine home ʻole i koi ʻia e hoʻolauleʻa i nā lā nui me ka ʻole o kā lākou hoa.
6. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, piha nā puʻuwai hoʻopunipuni o nā haku wahine i nā ʻōlelo hoʻopunipuni a hoʻokō ʻole ʻia.
7. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine, ʻike ka poʻe aloha i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka wahine a kā lākou ipo.
8. Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine i ke ʻano pili loa ua lanakila lākou ma luna o kā lākou wahine ma nā ʻano āpau.
9. Ma ke ʻano he kūlana, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā haku wahine ma mua o nā wahine kū kānāwai.
10. Kāhea aku nā haku wahine he nui, kākau a hoʻāʻo paha e ʻike i kahi hālāwai me nā wahine a kā lākou mau hoa i mea e wehe ai i ka pili o ka wahine a luku i ka ʻohana i ka wā hiki loa.
11. ʻO kahi pākēneka nui o nā haku wahine, i loaʻa i ka hemo ʻana o kā lākou mea aloha mai kāna wahine, a laila ke komo ʻana i ka male kū kānāwai me ia, loaʻa iā lākou iho he ipo hou.
12. Mālama pono nā haku wahine i ko lākou helehelena i mea e nānā ai i ke ʻano ʻono a makemake ʻia ma mua o ka kipa a kā lākou ipo.
13. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine maopopo leʻa ua aloha ke keonimana iā lākou wale nō me kona puʻuwai āpau, a me kāna wahine e noho kolohe nei a me ka manawa pōkole ʻole.
14. Hoʻoholo nā wahine he nui, i noho lōʻihi no ke kūlana o kahi haku wahine, e hāpai i kā lākou pakanā. Hānau kekahi i kahi keiki na lākou iho, hoʻāʻo kekahi e lawe i kahi kāne mai ka ʻohana i kēia ala.
15. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine e hālāwai me nā kāne male ua hauʻoli loa lākou i ko lākou kūlana, no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e hakakā me kā lākou mea aloha ma muli o nā pilikia o kēlā me kēia lā, ʻaʻole pono lākou e kuke, holoi, hoʻomaʻemaʻe.
16. Lili ka ʻāpana liona o nā haku wahine i kā lākou hoa no kāna wahine.
17. Kakali mau nā mea aloha, e laʻa, no nā hālāwai a me nā kelepona.
18. E like me ka maʻamau, ʻaneʻane ʻaʻole ʻike kekahi haku wahine e pili ana i ke ola o kekahi.
19. ʻO ka moekolohe maikaʻi, ka mea i ʻaʻa e hoʻopili aku i kahi kāne i male ʻia, e hoʻolohe mau i nā mea weliweli e pili ana i ka noho pū ʻana me kāna wahine.
20. Koikoi ʻia nā haku wahine e hiamoe haʻahaʻa i kahi moena anuanu ʻoiai ka mea i koho ʻia e kaʻana like i kāna moena me kāna wahine.
21. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, koi ʻia ke kūpaʻa kūʻokoʻa i kahi haku wahine, ʻoiai i kēia manawa hiki i ka hoa ke aloha i kāna wahine.
22. ʻO ka mea pinepine, e ʻae ka mea aloha i nā kūlana i kau ʻia e kāna mea aloha, e laʻa me ka papa kuhikuhi no nā hālāwai.
23. He mau wahine male kekahi mau haku wahine.
24. ʻO ka haku wahine mau ma ka ʻaoʻao.
25. Nui nā haku wahine i loaʻa nā makana makamae mai kā lākou mau keonimana.
26. Ma ke ʻano he rula, ʻaʻole ʻike ka ʻohana, nā hoaaloha a me ka wahine o ka mea i wae ʻia e pili ana i ke ola o kahi haku wahine.
27. ʻO ka maʻamau, aloha nā ipo a ma ka manawa like inaina i kā lākou hoa pili no ka noho pū ʻole ʻana me ia, no nā hoʻohiki i hoʻokō ʻole ʻia.
28. ʻO ka moemoeā nui a ʻaneʻane kēlā me kēia haku wahine e lilo i wahine kū kānāwai i kāna hoa.
29. ʻO ka hoka nui o ka hapa nui o nā wahine i hopu ʻia i loko o ka hei o kahi triangle aloha ke kaumaha o ko lākou manawa i hoʻonele ʻia.
30. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, koi ʻia nā wahine e lilo i haku wahine na ko lākou kiʻekiʻe i mea e kūleʻa ai i ka hana a e neʻe ai i ke alapiʻi ʻoihana.
31. Hōʻole ka nui o nā wahine me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole e mare a hoʻomau i ke kūlana o kahi haku wahine, e makaʻu ana ma hope o ka male ʻana e huʻuanu ka hoa, a i ʻole e lilo lākou i wahine a lākou e hoʻopunipuni ai.
32. He moʻo nui o nā lunamakaʻāinana e lilo i haku wahine no nā kāne waiwai.
33. I ka nui o nā hihia, he wahine kūʻē ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ka wahine kūhelu.
34. Makemake nā haku wahine he nui e noho i hoʻokahi lā, a ʻaʻole e hoʻomāluhia iā lākou iho me nā kuhihewa ʻole e pili ana i ke ola me kā lākou mea aloha.
35. ʻO kekahi mau wahine, e pili ana i ke kāne, ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike e pili ana i ka noho ʻana o kahi wahine a he haku wahine lākou.
36. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻo nā ipo i hiki ʻole ke lawe i kahi kāne ma waho o ka ʻohana e hoʻoholo e lawelawe i nā lawelawe o nā salona kilokilo a hana i kahi pela aloha i kā lākou mea i wae ʻia.
37. ʻimi ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine e haʻalele i kā lākou ipo mai kā lākou wahine, akā ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe i kūleʻa i ka lawe ʻana i kēia mea i ka hopena.
38. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine e pili pilina me nā kāne male ua māʻona loa lākou i nā hālāwai me ke kuleana ʻole.
39. Wahi a nā helu helu, ʻo ka hapanui o nā haku wahine i hiki ke uhaʻi i kā lākou pilina paʻakikī e loaʻa kahi kāne hou a male maikaʻi iā ia.
40. Hoʻomaopopo kekahi mau mea aloha i ka hohonu o ko lākou mau ʻuhane ʻaʻole like kēlā ʻano pilina i kekahi mea maikaʻi i ka hopena, akā makaʻu lākou e uhaʻi i ka pilina ma muli o ke aloha nui i ke kāne.
41. ʻO nā haku wahine, ma ke ʻano he kūlana, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā manawa ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā makana i nā wahine, e laʻa me nā pua, nā mea hoʻonaninani, a me nā makana makamae pinepine.
42. ʻO nā haku wahine nui ʻole pilikia i manaʻo ʻia he mau wahine i male ʻia.
43. Huli ka hapanui o nā haku wahine i mau wahine mālama ʻia, i hele a kākoʻo piha. I ka manawa i loko o ke kolohe, ua mākaukau kahi kāne e uku no nā makemake āpau.
44. ʻO ka nui a ʻoi aku hoʻi o nā wahine, e hoʻomaka ana i ka lā me ke kāne male, kaukaʻi i ke kākoʻo mea, a ʻaʻole alakaʻi ʻia e nā manaʻo.
45. ʻO ka hapanui o nā wahine wahine he mākaukau loa i ka moena a ʻike maka e pili ana i nā ʻano kūlana.
46. ʻAʻole maopopo loa nā haku wahine āpau i ka manaʻo kanikau, ʻaʻole lākou e minamina i nā wahine hoʻopunipuni, hoʻowahāwahā ʻia lākou, a ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei lākou ka hewa nā mea pono ʻole, no ka mea, ʻaʻole lākou i mālama i kā lākou kāne.
47. He makaʻu nā wahine he nui i hoʻoholo i ka pilina me ke kāne male i ka aloha aloha ʻana i kā lākou hoa.
48. Ua māʻona kekahi mau wahine i ke kūlana o kahi haku wahine a i loko o ko lākou ola ʻaʻole lākou e ʻaʻa e komo i ka male kūhelu.
49. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi ipo ke hōʻole iā ia iho i nā pilina ma ka ʻaoʻao, no ka mea ʻaʻole ia i paʻa i nā hoʻohiki a me nā kuleana me kāna hoa.
50. Loaʻa ka palupalu i ka haku wahine, aloha, aloha, mālama a nānā, a hele ka hana hale i ka wahine.
51. He nui nā wahine i komo i loko o kahi pilina me kahi kāne male e haʻi ʻo kā lākou mea aloha ka ipo maikaʻi loa a lākou i loaʻa ai.
52. Ke lilo i haku wahine, hiki i kekahi ke ʻike piha i ke ʻano o ka mehameha.
53. Pono ka haku wahine e wahaheʻe mau e pili ana i kona ola pilikino i nā ʻohana, nā hoaaloha, nā hoapaahana.
54. ʻOiai ʻo ka mea a ka hoa i ʻōlelo mua ai ʻaʻole pono e helu hou i kekahi mea, ʻo ka hapanui o nā wahine home ʻole ʻaʻole e nalo ka manaʻolana no ka wā e hiki mai ana.
55. makaʻu nā haku wahine i ka hopena boomerang.
56. Alakaʻi nui a paʻakikī nā hana extramarital i nā haku wahine i ka keʻena o kahi psychologist a psychiatrist paha.
57. Manaʻo kekahi mau haku wahine i ko lākou kūlana hoʻohaʻahaʻa, akā no ke aloha ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kōkua iā lākou iho.
58. He nui nā wahine i ke kūlana o ka wahine haku wahine a i ka manawa like ʻaʻole manaʻo iki i nā manaʻo aloha, he kāne no lākou wale nō ke kākoʻo a ʻaʻohe mea hou aʻe.
59. Hoʻohālikelike ka ʻāpana liona o nā haku wahine i kā lākou pilina me kahi kāne i male ʻia i kahi huakaʻi aloha poina ʻole me ka moekolohe hihi ʻole.
60. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine e pili ana i ka pilina me kahi kāne manuahi e manaʻoʻiʻo ana ua paʻahana nā keonimana kūpono, no laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka launa ʻana me kahi kāne i male ʻia ma mua o ka ʻeha wale ʻana a i ʻole ka hui ʻana me kahi slob manuahi.
61. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea aloha i kā lākou pilina pili hauʻoli me nā mea āpau, no ka mea loaʻa iā lākou ka kirimalu o ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine.
62. ʻO ke kumu, manaʻoʻiʻo nā wahine he mea maikaʻi ia e lilo i wahine wahine, no ka mea, i kēlā me kēia manawa a lākou e hui ai, he nui ke adrenaline, ke aloha, ka hāʻule o nā manaʻo.
63. Ua ʻae kekahi mau kaikamahine e aloha mau lākou me nā kāne male, a ʻike ʻole lākou i kekahi mea hilahila i ke kūlana o kahi haku wahine.
64. Aia kekahi mahele o nā wahine i kapa ʻia ʻo nā "haku wahine i hoʻokau ʻia", ʻo ia mau wahine, ua laki ʻole lākou i nā kāne; ʻO ka mea hope loa, hōʻeha loa i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kāne manuahi kūpono, mākaukau lākou e ʻono i ka hua i pāpā ʻia no ka pili o ka pilina.
65. "Moekolohe no ka moekolohe" ka mākia a kekahi mau haku wahine.
66. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi mau hūnōna wahine i nā hoahānau o ke kāne a ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa iā lākou kahi ʻōlelo maʻamau me lākou. ʻO ka haku wahine, ʻokoʻa i ka wahine, ʻaʻole pono e hou i ka hou e pili ana i kēia, e hulahula i ke kani o ka makuahonowai wahine a me nā hoa pili ʻē aʻe.
67. He wahine hahai holoholona ka haku wahine, puka ʻo ia i waho a lālau i nā mea āpau e moe hewa ʻole ana, a i kekahi manawa holo ka holoholona i ka mea ʻimi holoholona ponoʻī.
68. Ke hōʻike ʻia i kahi ākea me kahi mea aloha kahi waiwai maikaʻi ʻole, no laila ʻo ka haku wahine mau i nā aka.
69. ʻO kekahi mau haku wahine male, ua iho lākou i ke kai o ke kuko me ke kāne manuahi, ua haʻalele i kā lāua mau wahine.
70. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka moekolohe maikaʻi, ma ke kūlana o kahi haku wahine, mihi i kēia ʻike.
71. No nā wahine he nui, e lilo ana i haku wahine o kahi kāne manuahi ʻole e like me ka lele lūlū, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻoi loa, kahi paʻakikī e hōʻole.
72. Hoʻokaʻawale nā kāne i kā lākou mau wahine a hele aku i ko lākou haku wahine, akā he kakaikahi loa kēlā mau hihia.
73. Hoʻomaikaʻi kahi haku wahine akamai i kona helehelena ma ke kumu kūʻai o ke kāne manuahi, aloha kahi haku wahine lapuwale, uē a kali no kāna mea i aloha ʻia.
74. He mea aloha ka mea aloha no ka stress, nā pilikia a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka moekolohe me kāna wahine i hoʻokahi ʻōmole.
75. Kūlou nā haku wahine he nui i ka haʻahaʻa a huli i nā ʻōlelo hōʻino a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli i ka wahine a me nā keiki a kā lākou hoa.
76. Wahi a nā helu helu, ʻo kēlā me kēia wahine ʻekolu ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i kona ola i ke ʻano o ka wahine wahine a ke kāne i mare ʻia.
77. Hoʻohālikelike kēlā me kēia haku wahine iā ia iho i kāna wahine.
78. Ma ke ʻano he rula, ʻaʻole kū ka wahine i pili ka pilina me ke kāne i ka wahine i ka wahine i hoʻokahi wahine.
79. Hū ka hapanui o nā kaikamahine i ke kaiāulu a me nā ʻohana i ka pili o ka pilina me kahi kāne manuahi, makaʻu i ka hoʻohewa ʻia.
80. Ua haʻalele pinepine nā wahine home ʻole i ka hoʻoholo ʻana e pepehi i kā lākou ipo mua.
81. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine i manaʻoʻiʻo i nā moʻolelo a me nā hoʻohiki a kā lākou hoa manuahi.
82. ʻAʻole makemake ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine i ke aka, kāhea lākou i nā maka o kā lākou wahine, a hakakā pū no kā lākou ipo a hiki i ka hopena ʻawaʻawa.
83. ʻAʻole makaʻu nā wahine home home ʻole i ka hoʻāhewa ʻia e ka lehulehu, no laila hōʻike ikaika lākou i kā lākou mau hana extramarital me kahi kāne i male ʻia, a laila e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻolalelale i kāna haʻalele ʻana mai kāna wahine.
84. ʻO ka haku wahine he hopena maikaʻi ʻole.
85. Noho ka hapa nui o nā haku wahine i ka wā e haʻalele ai kā lākou keonimana i kāna mea kūpaʻa, akā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻike pehea e holo ai ke ola holoʻokoʻa.
86. Aia kekahi mau manawa ke loaʻa i kahi haku wahine kahi kūlana kahi e hoʻomaka ai e noho me kāna mea aloha a me kāna wahine.
87. Ma ka awelika, he 3-10 mau makahiki ka pilina me kahi haku wahine.
88. ʻIke pinepine nā kāne i nā haku wahine ma ka hana. Kūpono kahi ipo hoa, no ka mea paʻakikī kēia ʻano o ka hihia, no ka mea, aia nā kamaʻilio āpau a me ka pili aloha i kahi hana.
89. No ka hapa nui, no ka wahine i wahine haku wahine e ʻike ʻia ka makemake a me ke aloha ʻia.
90. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ka pilina me ka haku wahine i pau me ka helehelena o ke keiki i ka ʻohana, akā, ma ke ʻano he kūlana, ma hope o kekahi manawa ua hoʻomaka hou paha lākou, a i ʻole aia kekahi kuko ʻoluʻolu no ka ʻoluʻolu.
91. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā hihia extramarital e hoʻopau ʻole ʻia.
92. Manaʻo kekahi mau ipo aia lākou i loko o ke ʻano kūpono o ka pilina, kahi ʻaʻohe wahi no ka luhi a me ka hana maʻamau.
93. Haʻaheo nā haku wahine he nui i ko lākou kūlana, e hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei ʻo ka huaʻōlelo "haku wahine" ke aʻa like i ka huaʻōlelo "aloha".
94. Aia i loko o kahi pilina me kahi kāne manuahi, ʻaʻole pono kahi haku wahine e manaʻo hou aku.
95. Hoʻopiʻi pinepine ʻia nā haku wahine i hōʻino ʻia e nā wahine kūpono.
96. ʻAʻole like me ka wahine, ʻike ka haku wahine i ke kūlana a hāʻawi ʻana i ka moena me kekahi wahine ʻē aʻe.
97. Me kahi hanana laki no kahi haku wahine, hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi i ka ʻohana Kuekene.
98. Lana ka manaʻo o nā haku wahine he nui ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki, e haʻalele kā lākou mea aloha i kāna wahine.
99. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea aloha aloha e hana i nā hoʻolālā koʻikoʻi no kā lākou hoa, a inā ʻaʻole e hāʻule, hāʻule i ke kaumaha.
100. I kekahi manawa hele nā kaikamahine i nā haku wahine no ka hoʻopaʻi, no ka mea ua aʻo ʻia ua hoʻomaka kā lākou hoa i kahi hihia ma ka ʻaoʻao.
